I hear alot of girls ponder on the subject of their boyfriends, its either my boyfriend this my boyfriend that...fair enough if you have different values and beliefs....I have alot of non - Muslim friends and I'm fine with that, Ive known these girls since childhood most of them are either married or are in realtionships.
But it astonishes me when i hear it coming from a Muslimah's mouth, like its something normal for a Muslim/Muslimah to say, subhanallah I'm saddened by the fact they are supposedly Muslims and believe that kinda attitude is right fine but don't bring that kinda s$#@ to my face...Ok fine when people ask me are you Muslim or say Salam but when they constantly ask you do you have a boyfriend that just annoys the hell outta me...
A few sisters actually approached me with questions and said ah yes your boyfriend sister how did you met him? --- I was like WTH? And another sisters blog which i stumbled across which had her boyfriends birthday and mentions him in her posts as the "boyfriend"...she cant be serious:/Can she? I feel like the next person that asks me that question I'm gonna scream in their face and say "NO HE'S NOT, HES MY DH2B" why on earth would i wanna have a boyfriend when i know and you should know that its haram to date or whatever it is that you do with your bf to which also you should know that it can lead to having feelings for the opposite sex which can lead to Zina, having a bf/dating is strictly haram because when a guy and a girl are together there is a third party shaytan and i don't know if you know this but there is no such concept in Islam, so if you wanna do fornication and GOD knows what else be my guest that's purely between you and GOD but leave me out of it, now please enough with the annoying questions.
Ahhh! sorry i just had to get that off my chest.